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About Me
Ah, to condense twenty-five years into twenty-five words of less, well, maybe not.
F. Scott said, “There are no second acts in American lives,” well, most folks know that to be a load of bull.
Let’s see I have been a failed Reverend, a successful publisher, a respected editor, and a pretty good M&A entrepreneur. The first my love, the second and third my passion and last a way to make money. That surely constitutes more than two acts and perhaps even a mini-series on Lifetime. Yuck!
The last twenty years I have mostly spend my working life starting small independent newspapers. Think alternative, irreverent, socially conscious free rags.
I have been married to a wonderful woman named Susan for nineteen years. We have lived around the world and for years called NYC our home.
My offices were 11 blocks from WTC on 9/11. My attorney was on the 85th floor of Tower Two. She tragically was never found.
(Susan and I would have been on the 85th floor of Tower Two at 8 am on 9/13. So we were some of the lucky ones.)
For a year after 9/11 we soldiered on but our hearts and our city were badly damaged.
Our dreams before the attack seemed unimportant when stacked beside the real awareness of how short life really is.
Someone once asked Billy Graham what he had found most amazing about life?
He answered, “Its brevity.”
So, we have become “drop outs.” We have traded Gucci for Wal-mart and Manhattan for a farm in rural Alabama. It is very much Green Acres. (Organic garden, 2 horses, 5 goats, 2 dogs, 4 chickens and I have no idea how many cats.) Susan has an earth-friendly store and greenhouse; I spend much of my time writing things that no one ever reads (except those who are kind enough to read my rants without thinking I have truly crossed the line into lunacy).
It has taken me the better part of the last twenty-five years to fully forgive myself (and some others) for my final days in The Way.
Of course finally finding a Russian doctor and a French psychiatrist I am fine, really. The doctor assured me, “Smoke, drink, enjoy, what’s it going to do kill you?” The frog intoning a motto of, “Wrong? There is no wrong!"
Ok, I’m kidding.
I am very happy to see so many people I once called friend here on this site and doing well.
If I have offend, hurt or betrayed any of you I am sorry and ask your forgiveness.
It is my wish to connect as best I can and share whatever I have with everyone here.
Typing this now I also ponder, what is the next act?
To all of you I say, I am okay. How are you friend?
Love to all,
B
“No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main.
If a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as if a manor of thy friend's or of thine own were: any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.”
John Donne
Music I Like
Charlie Parker
Billie Holiday
Ella Fitzgerald
Chet Baker
Dean Martin (Really he was great!)
Tony Bennett
Nat “King” Cole
Most songs by Johnny Mercer
The Beatles (of course)
The Rolling Stones
The Beach Boys (Pet Sounds)
The Chieftains
Van Morrison
Songs and Bands that should never be heard again!
Stairway to heaven
Muskrat Love (What was that all about!)
Ben
Anything Michael Jackson, Wings, Lite Rock, Hair bands and Rap (Why did they leave the C off of the spelling?) Well, maybe that song about, “Sipping on Gin and juice, with my mind on my money and my money on my mind.” I mean, really, it is so culturally relevant.
Now that I have started this list I know it is a fool’s errand.
Comments
Ken
I appreciated your "Know When to Hold'em" blog post. Insightful, relevant to practical living ethics, and well said. The comments I read were pretty good too. I didn't read them all. I was going to take a closer look this morning, but it's gone!....? As you know, Dr. Wierwille was deathly against gambling on any level, but the Scripures are silent on the issue. They only speak to where a gambler's heart and motivation might be, not to the activity itself. I appreciate reading things that are challenging regarding ethics and the practical application of God's Word. Thanks.
When you find Sonship tape send to me and I'll do my best to put on CD.
My mailing address is
Ted Ferrell
6175 101st.Ave.
Pinellas Park, FL.33782
Phone (727) 368-8953
I saw your reply on forum Music Blast From The Past but I goofed up and deleted the whole thing Today I'm back on.
Yes Billy that tape you have of Sonship is priceless and if you send it to me to be put on CD I will gaurd it with my life
I hear from Skip M. Willie S. (by way of Linda) and Pete Miller.You guys were good and you my brother did some fine vocal work..
Ted
Nice seeing your smiling face, please give us a call sometime!
Ken & Helen Sudduth 941-773-5004
Another one, most certainly by the mercy and grace of God!
Did you get my comments made to your page a few weeks ago?
George
I just read your page-good to see you and hear what you had to say.
Good for you,
-Nancy
Have enjoyed your blogs and various comments.
Noticed that you live in Alabama. How in the world did that come about?
My wife and I are both from Alabama. I grew up in Guntersville and Oneonta.
Joni grew up in Oneonta. We now live in Woodstock, GA. We have retained a farm in Straight Mountain near Horse Pens 40, and go there often...great fishing in the pond and great hiking in woods. Deer, wolves, coyote, and panthers keep us in good company. Joni's mom and family live there. Do you know these areas? We also often visit Guntersville. This is where my mom live
I would be interested in knowing in which part of Alabama you reside, and how that came to be, if you are willing to share that information. My personal email is: onemanbluesband@hotmail.com
George