Way Corp group(s) I was in
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About Me
Ah, to condense twenty-five years into twenty-five words of less, well, maybe not.
F. Scott said, “There are no second acts in American lives,” well, most folks know that to be a load of bull.
Let’s see I have been a failed Reverend, a successful publisher, a respected editor, and a pretty good M&A entrepreneur. The first my love, the second and third my passion and last a way to make money. That surely constitutes more than two acts and perhaps even a mini-series on Lifetime. Yuck!
The last twenty years I have mostly spend my working life starting small independent newspapers. Think alternative, irreverent, socially conscious free rags.
I have been married to a wonderful woman named Susan for nineteen years. We have lived around the world and for years called NYC our home.
My offices were 11 blocks from WTC on 9/11. My attorney was on the 85th floor of Tower Two. She tragically was never found.
(Susan and I would have been on the 85th floor of Tower Two at 8 am on 9/13. So we were some of the lucky ones.)
For a year after 9/11 we soldiered on but our hearts and our city were badly damaged.
Our dreams before the attack seemed unimportant when stacked beside the real awareness of how short life really is.
Someone once asked Billy Graham what he had found most amazing about life?
He answered, “Its brevity.”
So, we have become “drop outs.” We have traded Gucci for Wal-mart and Manhattan for a farm in rural Alabama. It is very much Green Acres. (Organic garden, 2 horses, 5 goats, 2 dogs, 4 chickens and I have no idea how many cats.) Susan has an earth-friendly store and greenhouse; I spend much of my time writing things that no one ever reads (except those who are kind enough to read my rants without thinking I have truly crossed the line into lunacy).
It has taken me the better part of the last twenty-five years to fully forgive myself (and some others) for my final days in The Way.
Of course finally finding a Russian doctor and a French psychiatrist I am fine, really. The doctor assured me, “Smoke, drink, enjoy, what’s it going to do kill you?” The frog intoning a motto of, “Wrong? There is no wrong!"
Ok, I’m kidding.
I am very happy to see so many people I once called friend here on this site and doing well.
If I have offend, hurt or betrayed any of you I am sorry and ask your forgiveness.
It is my wish to connect as best I can and share whatever I have with everyone here.
Typing this now I also ponder, what is the next act?
To all of you I say, I am okay. How are you friend?
Love to all,
B
“No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main.
If a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as if a manor of thy friend's or of thine own were: any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.”
John Donne
Music I Like
Charlie Parker
Billie Holiday
Ella Fitzgerald
Chet Baker
Dean Martin (Really he was great!)
Tony Bennett
Nat “King” Cole
Most songs by Johnny Mercer
The Beatles (of course)
The Rolling Stones
The Beach Boys (Pet Sounds)
The Chieftains
Van Morrison
Songs and Bands that should never be heard again!
Stairway to heaven
Muskrat Love (What was that all about!)
Ben
Anything Michael Jackson, Wings, Lite Rock, Hair bands and Rap (Why did they leave the C off of the spelling?) Well, maybe that song about, “Sipping on Gin and juice, with my mind on my money and my money on my mind.” I mean, really, it is so culturally relevant.
Now that I have started this list I know it is a fool’s errand.
Comments
My oh my... a few years.. a few miles... a few changes. You've traded the city life for the country, and I traded the country for the city. Hmmm. I like country better, but it's good for me to get back to driving like a nut and flipping people off. I was getting way to soft on Rt. 29. It's great to see your face and to hear you are happy. Please drop a note sometime....
love,
Cheryl
I never received your email address.
Try:
vinidemon@hotmail.com
V
I have a dusty, half-eaten cassette of our Way Productions "New Beginning" performance at the Rock. If you had it, you would know what I mean when I say "hokie ending." If you like, I can attempt to copy it and send it to you (yeah...pickin' peppers in Texas was definitely not a favorable option...LOL!).
Here is the link to my CD, Vini and the Demons. My main website is down right now but if you Google the band, you will have some very interesting reading to do, I guarantee.
http://cdbaby.com/cd/vinidemons
They will let you sample the songs there as a tease.
I have a photo of us on stage together that I'd like to send to you. What's the best way to do this? Just post it here on my site or what?
Love you, man...
Vini
LOL!!!
What up Britt???
Vini
I love your writings. They are very thoughtful and thought provoking and random! Not much of a "blogger" myself but who knows. Maybe you'll inspire me.
Would love to come hang on the farm and dig in the dirt and smell the horses. There are times when the "high" of City life is exuberating but its the "country living" that makes my heart the happiest.
Still praying after all these years, Tricia
My collection of memories with you were when JP and I lived in Miami and Debra Sleeper lived with you guys. You were a blast and you made it easier for us to survive the city of Miami. Remember when Dr. VPW came down in the MCI. We sure had some great times then. I still have some really great photos of that year. Janet Myracle was there too. Believe it or not, remember the WOW who was a model, Lauren was her name, she was in "pretty Bob's family, I ran in to her in a Walmart in Destin, FL. After 20 or more years we recognized each other. She's still short a few cans, but that was fun. I haven't seen her since.
Oh well, Billy it is great to hear about you. JP loved you so, You helped him so very much back in Miami.
God Bless you
Shari
Merry Christmas to you!
Did we have some great fun times or what?
Love ya,
Gary