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Youth in America ( as opposed to euthanasia )

No, I am not proposing that we euthanize the youth in America, although, the thought has on occasion crossed my mind...I am currently working on a study about our young folks---college age or so---that I would appreciate any input any of you would care to give regarding crossing the threshhold from youth into adulthood...I don't have any specific postion(s) or agendas I wish to promote---I would rather hear unbiased points, counter-points, tools, advise, anecdotes, tips or whatever, on leaving the nest, so to speak....Many of us here at this sight spent the years I'm referring to in residence in the way corps---in some respects, we jumped from one nest to another nest...Good or bad, joining the Way Corps today is not an option for most young people...yet, it is my only reference point back to my leaving the nest years...I have no idea how I would have spent my early twenties if the Way Corps wasn't available, and I really don't care, but I sense a certain lack of focus, and maybe some apprehension among the younger generation in growing into adulthood...Hopefully, this blog won't follow the trend of all the deleted blogs :)...I'm really more interested in being of help rather than being some old curmudgeon complaning about "the kids of today"...Any of your thoughts would be appreciated...Thanks...
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  • Great story Kevin,
    When my son needed a car I bought him one on the condition he pay me back. Time went on and he got a settlement from an accident and told me he'd pay me back in Aussie dollar. I said by God you got American dollar value and want that (nice try). He payed back every cent. I taught him somethiing. I did the same with my daughter. Now only one more to go. They both payed me in full.
  • Joe. You are doing what is in your Great big wonderful God soaked heart. Keep on keeping on. DB
  • ...and Kevin, that was such a blessing blast that you shared about your son and you! My son would have treated me to FISH & CHIPS!
  • SHOOT that talk show host! OMG... that was funny...DB
  • Well, I was first known as Kevin Nye the Oiler Guy (I was an Oiler on various merchant ships, then, Kevin Nye the Harmonica Guy (am still known as such), then, (and still) Kevin Nye The Drywall Guy (the name for my business), and now, last night for the first time, I was Kevin Nye The Standup Guy. And, it was great! Had 'em laughing even before I made my harmonica sound like a chicken! Fortunately for me though, I followed a guy who was disgustingly gross with crude sexual terminology who was also very very unfunny. He even told a stupid sex joke that I had first heard in sixth grade. So, it was not a "tough act to follow" by any means. And, I confess, I stole a story from our own Randy Anderson The Circuit rider. That story about him and his "cousin Lamar" and about when at the bar, Lamar said; "Who done took and went and flang yaller paint on my car"? And when some huge redneck named "Cletus" (I named him Cletus because I forgot what Randy's character was named) came up and said real loud and menacingly; "I did!", Lamar looked up at him in a friendly way and said; Well! Yer first coat's dry!" And dagnabbit, the people laughed! And, NOBODY could tell those tales like our good old Circuit Rider. Sure wish I could hear those again. John? Can you post a YouTube of Randy Anderson doing the Circuit Rider? Anyway, it was fun. I kept it clean except for when I did my Bill Clinton voice impersonation and mentioned Monica Lewinsky and how hard she used to "work" for Bill. But still, I wasn't graphic at all. And that went over well also. Okay. So, that's that on that.

    And Joe, I had a delightfull last two days with my seventeen year old son Riley as we put his 1988 Mustang (5.0) rear axle back together. He'd wrecked it being reckless, learn his lesson in "being stupid", and together, we opened up the rear differential, followed the shop manual, did what we needed to do to extract the busted axle shaft, pulled the shaft, installed the new one, rebuilt the destroyed brake drum on the right rear wheel-a(major pain in the butt-got it all back together, and all the while we were using his debit card from his bank account (he worked two jobs this summer and banked it-$2500 bucks!), and when it was done, we got in his black road rocket Mustang with the tinted windows and went for a ride. And ya know what he did? He said; "Dad, I'm taking you to lunch. Lets go to Subway!" And we did. And, my heart swelled with pride as he told the Subway guy that "I'm buying lunch for my Dad because he is so awesome cuz he helped me get my Mustang back on the road!" It was all I could do to keep from getting all choked up right there in public. And at home, he gave me a great big hug and said "Thanks Dad, I really love you".

    It was a great time of teaching too. I am an able mechanic, and as we worked through the myriad challenges of working on a "hermaphrodite" American/Japanese/standard/metric car that was designed to be worked on by Lilliputians, and, he began to see that the Old Man actually knows "a thing or two".

    And so for me, it was an awesome milestone which made all of the challenges and heart aches of raising kids very very much worth it. A moment long awaited to be sure. And so, sometimes good things happen. If I ever have a time like that with my 22 year old, I may just finally come into an understanding of what it means to our Heavenly Father when we "idiotes" get to where we actually fellowship with Him. But really, today, I think I gained a better appreciation concerning the love that God has for us as His children. He loves us, and simply wants us to recognize all He has done for us, and He wants us to let Him be a part of our lives. That's what happened these last two days: Riley let me "be The Dad" and I reveled in it.. It just floors me to think that God simply wants us to "let Him in" to our lives. He knows more than us, has way more ability than us-I mean, after all He is a "Universe Creator"-and, he knows the intricacies of the spiritual battle that rages about us. And so, for my son Riley to allow me "to be Dad" was a major refresher to be sure. May our prayers yield more of the same for al of us who are parents.

    Smiling,

    Kevin
  • Ali-G is Sasha Cohen of Borat fame. As my mother used to say, "He's laughing all the way to the bank".
    Have fun Kevin. Aren't you "Kevin Nye the Science Guy?"
  • Good one! What a fricken moron!

    And, amazingly, Jim you mentioned that Joe should be "doing stand up comedy". And so, I take this as a SIGN to have read this just today!! For, to night, I will be introduced, for the very first time, as "Kevin Nye The Stand Up Guy" at the swanky bar here in Juneau known as "Jaded". Yeah, it's an amateur comedy night, and the first prize will be $150 bucks. And even if I bomb on my monologue, I have a major trick up my sleeve. I play harmonica, do a song called "The Chicken Boogie", and can make my harp "cluck like a chicken". It's always a major foot stomper and laugh laugh getter. Wish me luck!

    Yeah, I too haven't crossed that threshold just yet...
  • That POME (prisoners of mother Elizabeth) sounded like he had a real grip on euthansia. Must have pulled out the crack pipe before the interview.
  • Thanks, Lois...Any suggestions on how to clean Ya-Hoo chocolate soda off of a computer screen and keyboard?....
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