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Us parents need to be diligent

I saw this footage this morning that happened in the Metro area where I live in Melbourne Australia and it made me think.I was just on the commuter trains yesterday going into Melbourne for a job interview. And stood on a similar station and thought to share here and not compare.http://news.ninemsn.com.au/national/876261/cctv-footage-of-pram-hit-by-train-releasedI am not trying to frighten you here, but say that I have had a few ' not paying attention moments' with my kids, as a parent.I reckon it is an awareness responsibility I am putting out there. Parents or Grandparents to be listen up.I remember once my youngest daughter was fiddling around with her safety belt. I said leave it on, 10 seconds later my middle daughter said Leah fell out of the car. WTF, I stopped the car, luckily I was only in a dirt driveway and she rolled clean of the car 3 meters from an iron post in the yard and was startled.I admonished her to listen when I say leave on your seatbelt. On the learning curve she didn't get it. I overlooked it but made a mental note, she is unaware at her age.Another time I was making a beer run and pressed on my clutch to roll backwards but for some unknown reason ( a GOD hint) I pushed on the brake and looked in my rear view mirror seeing my youngest daughter hanging on my tailgate. I pulled the emergency brake, got out, admonished her and said git in the truck let's go get some chocks (chocalates). She knew daddy was going to the store and wanted some lollies. Fair enough! She passed on the learning curve as she thought more about dangers of life.Another time I was out in the woods on my property cutting trees down by hand to put in a new barbwire fence.I was to cheap to hire a dozer, so I did it all by myself. I am a tough cookie.Just as the tree I was felling began to fall (I was pondering Ecc. 11:3 another GOD hint) I looked in my perefial (sp) (too many syllables) vision and saw my son standing where that tree began to fall and grabbed him where he was standing . I admonished him to keep a distance when I am working. " Next time throw a rock at me to get my attention", I exclaimed." I was just watching dad", " Watch over there then," I exclaimed.I would like to hear your God moments with the youngins if you care to share and not compare.
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  • The last time I wet my appetite on black jack my favorite past time alone game was up in South Dakota. I was taking a ANOC course (advance non commisioned course) with the military. The first night the girl behind the table was accomadating and I won 60 bucks. The next night some beech ran the table and I lost my earnings. Didn't try it again in the real world but still do it on line once a while hohum..
  • Well, we just looked at it as entertainment and agreed to use only ex amount and when that was gone, we'd gamble no more. But, we came out ahead! Shannon won around 200 at the black jack tables. But once we won it, we still only used the original agreed upon amount. We had some fine meals there though, and a few really good Long Island Iced Teas! Funny how you can walk right along the Strip, enjoying adult beverages. You cane even walk into a liquor store with a cocktail in hand! We did it just to do it, and didn't even buy anything at the liquor store. And when we were in there, a cop came in because an under aged girl had reportedly gone in there. And when the cop came in, we al cheered him and we all laughed. The whole Vegas thing really was quite a different experience for us. A real novelty...
  • I don't gamble either. The one armed bandit (pokies) just takes your money . Here gambling is everywhere. On the footy games to casinos everywhere you turn. The odds are only 30% of the time you'll win the house takes 70%. Not good odds but it revolves around greed. Where I work many people put in 5 bucks each week for the tattslotto . I have never won that much money as you have so I use the money I earn elsewhere.
  • Actually, I'm not the gambling type. Shannon and I did go to Vegas a couple of years ago, pulled some slots, won a few hundy, had some fun. When I won the few hundred from the slot, all these bells and whistles started going off and even a crowd gathered! I thought for about a full minute as it kept "cha-chinging" that maybe I'd wone The Big One! But then one guy in the crowd chuckled, shook his head a little and walked away. And, the "cha-chinging" stopped, and the machine spit out my chit for three hundred and something. It was cool! But, I didn't "re-invest it", we spent it on fine foods and other adventures...
  • It could be a sign Kev but I don't advise you take up a second mortgage just yet.
  • No problem Carol. Maybe I shouldn't have been misleading.

    And hey Ronnie, since that angel had a Norwegian accent, then maybe that means that the Vikings will win the Super Bowl with Brett Favre this year! Whoo hoo! That's where I'm bettin' my money!
  • Carol,
    here is my comment after I allegedly punched the guy. Re-read the post...

    "Just kidding about punching the punk. The only emotion in me was thankfulness..."
  • OMG Kevin. I bet Shannon was freakin! Well told story.

    It seems like when a child gets lost like they are most likely gonna be found by someone and all is gonna be ok. It is rare that they would be snatched. Numeric odds are seriously against that ever happening. But try telling that to a nervous Mom! If anything, the parents and child are just freaked out for awhile until some mall person or policeman or guard returns the child to its rightful owner. Once I found a screamin child at a department store. I comforted him and said lets go find mommy. The child was ok immediately. Mommy was 2 aisles over and just missed him when I walked up. All was good. She held tight after that I bet.

    Still....the unknown factor is hell. And all the things we see on TV about disappearances. Yikes! It's absolute torture when it takes hours or if they have to take the child in to the station until the frantic call comes in. Oh man! I can just imagine!

    Reminds me of that move "Home Alone". I like the concept of the "hedge of protection" from God. Works for me.

    I hate it when a parent blames themselves when something bad truly does happen to a child or a loved one. We can't blame ourselves. I never, ever, ever again want to hear anyone say it was that person's "believing" that caused the negative event. That is a destructive and harmful doctrine. Sometimes life just sucks and things happen to us. Period. We've all seen bad things happen to good people. Don't blame them or thier believing.

    Other times we are praying in thankfulness like Kevin did that afternoon.
  • OMG Kevin. I remember you telling me this before. We had concluded it was an angel of the living God that returned your son when we spole about this incident. I didn't know Angels had Norweign accents though, LOL.
  • ould have. Thank God the kiddo made it through! And Carol, the knife thing. Amazing where that thing landed between those toes!

    One time, my wife and I were in D.C. down on The Mall for the 4th of July. We were right next to the Washington Monument mingling with the masses. There were an estimated 300,000 people in town that Independence Day for the celebration. Shannon and I had our first two kids with us, Meagan, then four, and Trevor, then two years old. At one point Shannon and I saw these "punks" with spiked Mohawk haircuts and and their chicks with half shaved heads complete with paper clips and little chains pierced into their faces and lips, etc. We'd never seen anything like 'em before, except maybe in the Mad Max movies (remember those Ronnie?), and we were pretty amazed at what we were seeing. At one point, after a young married couple had their pictures taken with them, the punks began to yell at the young couple and ask them for money because of their supplied "photo op", which of course pissed me off. I started over to the young couple to help them out and get into the faces of those disrespectful punks when Shannon yells; "Kevin! Where's Trevor?!?!" We'd been so distracted by the spectacle of the punks, that we'd let him wander off! And I looked around, and he was GONE! There was nothing but a sea of faces and no Trevor Clay Nye! Shannon, frantic, holding Meagan by the hand started running around looking for two year old Trev, finding him nowhere. Me, thinking all of the worst, began to just calm down, and I asked God to "find him for us..please". Yes, I did the "begging prayer", not the "claim it" prayer. And, I spoke in tongues a bunch and just kept looking. A tortuous full three minutes went by yet we'd not found Trevor. Then, I felt a tap on my shoulder. I turned, and there was a nice man holding Trevor. And with a thick Norwegian accent, he asked; "Is this your son"? And I breathed out a heavy; "Yesss". And "thank you sir, thank you so very much. God bless you", as I gathered him up. Then, I yelled out to Shannon, still frantically running around and calling out Trevor's name, and when she turned and saw me, came running with Meagan and I placed Trevor in her arms as she came up to me. We were both pretty shook up, and tears of thankfulness were streaming down our cheeks. We prayed right there on the spot, thanking God for Trevor, and asking Him to forgive us for being so distracted. Yeah, that was a scary one fore shore...

    After that, I walked straight up to the biggest punk and smashed his face with a heavy blow from my right. Cut my knuckles on his friggin' paperclip though...














    just kidding about punching the punk. The only emotion in me was thankfulness...
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