Way Corp group(s) I was in
14th
About Me
Married to Bonnie Rabideau, 8th Corps.
Daughter Renata, born 1992
Exchange Student Daughter Hsuan-Hui, (Pronounced Shun Whey), born 1991 in Taiwan
(She thought she was going to California, but West Coast also includes ALASKA!)
My Interests
bonsai, orchids. I usher at our local theater and volunteer at a large number of Gardening community functions and state fairs for the bonsai displays/ I have more than 300 trees or prospective trees and 60+ orchids, moslty miniatures mounted on cork bark and cottonwood bark. FInally got a greenhouse addition to my house this last year.
Employment or Career
FedEx instructor, hired 1986. Landscaping business, floral business. I teach bonsai throughout the state and write articles about bonsai in the far north for different publications. I travel around the country quite a bit for work, mostly the West Coast and Memphis, but I got to go to Japan this year and I am hoping to get to China next year.
Comments
How in the world does anyone look so happy in Alaska? I remember Bonnie from when I was in the 10th. Sounds like you are doing great. Glad to hear it and great to see you.
I spent my interim year in Bismark. I think AK would have been more hospitable.
Thanks for writing back. I love the pictures. Looks like your living the life. Bonnie is still beautiful and where did you get that gray hair? I would live to visit and will look for a time to get there. Rachel is living in Chicago near me and Jason is in Coulubus near Maria. We are all doig well and Deb and I just had a great Weekend in the Word here in Rockford. We need to stay intouch.
Love,
Charlie
Loved every minute of it. What a great place. sorry about the tas and not beling able to show them off. My middle (6'4) wants one. I told him I have approve what he gets while he's home, and that if he wants a decent job in the fiel;d he's kooking into not to get them on his forearms. He's considering the life/death tat which is very cool when you look at from different sides. Enuf on tats.
Catherine say hi and, was amazed that you saw Chris. She said he got very good reviews for the the show. She's pretty happy that her bro's are branding their own name and styles. Catherine won't show up her in any near future as she doesn't feel the need. At least that is what she said. So I am the middle man.
Shalom,
D
Looking below I see that Debra has left you a comment. That girl likes to write. Looks like a novella down there.. You gotta love 'er.
You said: "...my younger brother passing was kind of a nut shot"... (understood)..."but I was able to remember that he was doing as he had always wanted and was happier than he had ever been and I thought, what more could I ever want than to have all I had desired and worked towards occuring up to the end?"
I've lost a brother and now Doug, a friend closer than a brother in ways. My brother died never knowing much good where Doug died in the supremely happiest time of his life, becoming free of darkness and embracing joy.
So what you said "what more could anyone want..." will be something I will be able to be glad for always, once the numb thing, etc., ends. I am so glad to hear you made peace with a similar circumstance... that alone helps.
You wrote: "Interesting that about 3 months after he died I was called...I was still reeling from the loss, and I was decidely unthankful ..."
Thank you for the timeframe. I know from experience the worse part fades but when it's so fresh you know it feels like it won't. I know the negatives are normal but it's so taboo to be unthankful, etc., so again, your openness is a blessing.
You wrote: "...but they have moved out of my life and are firmly embedded into my fond memories. I guess that this moved into a kind of rambling retrospective, but that's where I drifted."
And well drifted. It is important that they move out of one's life and into fond memories...I never would have that perspective in those words if you hadn't said it that way. makes it feel less like abandoning them and more...healthy.
And you said: "The freshest hurt goes when the shock is over, and then you can remember the fun times more than anything else."
You know, 'all the people have gone home', it's supposed to be done with but it's still fresh and numb and shocking and wrong and weighty. Thank you for reminding me it is a common experience and it will subside. This soul left me with gifts and love and great fun memories and I will end there. It's good to be reminded that it will not continue to be hard.
You are full of love and wisdom Paul and more than that, strength and no fear to reach out. To be near 50 in this day and age and have a good, open, loving heart is a glory to God.
Hey, I almost MOVED to Alaska in 1990 but then I had surgery and met my husband and my mom moved here..so no go. I am happy here (FL), it is home now. But AK has to be awesome and it's people odd and delightful.
Love, Deb
Love you,
MP
Julie
LOL, I of those trivial points I do remember. I also remember you in your FEdEx uniform one time. A trainer , huh? I will let A&C know that you say hi and say Chris. He played here not to long ago. Getting a name for himself and bros.
Good to se you here Paul
D
I guess leaving out a number on a phone number is a sign of aging! I usally don't have to know phone numbers any more... I just push a letter for someone's name in my cell phone and PUFF... it rings!
home 407-737-3687 and cell 407-404-3339.
Talk about opposite ends of the world... Florida and Alaska!!! I've heard Alaska is beautiful. Maybe someday Randy and I will take an Alaskan Cruise (in the summertime). I'll give you a call soon. I want to see more photos of your family. Hugs to Bonnie.