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NO FORGIVENESS?!

Why do we not forgive others? Is there a time or a situation that warrent that we do not forgive others? Is forgiveness necessary? Or is it just a state of mind? What does forgiveness accomplish? I hope I can forgive myself for asking so many questions (lol). Anyway back to the dramatic questions...., Can we not forgive someone and truly move on in our lives or will it come back to hunt us in the future....like.....let's say.... before the judgement seat of Christ?!! Or maybe before that faithful day.Please say your peace or hold your fart in....forever!
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  • Hey Kevin, quite insiteful I must say. Thanks for showing forgiveness from the Lord Jesus on the "tree cross". Wow! Now that's something I would love to develop in my personal study.
    How that verse in Gal.6:1 on "restoring a man overtaken in a fault" may not necessarily be one that trespass against you the restorer, but I can see how it can work in such a case. It would mean ofcourse the one in a fault would be opened to restoration. There will be people that have trespass against us that has no desire whatsoever to mend things or even care for our forgiveness. But we are call upon to forgive each other "AS GOD FOR CHRIST'S SAKE HATH FORGIVEN YOU". Certain none of us merit forgiveness from God but He did it for us anyway in His Son.
    I believe that forgiveness allows us to let go of "getting even" with the one that has wrong us and gives us the great opportunity to demonstrate and reflect the image of God. Forgiveness also releases us from bitterness, wrath, anger,clamour,evil speaking (of the one who have wrong us), and malice.
    Kevin this has been really good for me and you have minister to my heart. Thank you for taking the time to share, feel free to continue.
  • "Here's another question, can you forgive a person that has wrong you without they knowing you have done so? Or must it be made known? Does forgiveness requires us to meet and commune with the the trespassER?"

    You question is kind of "two fold". First of all, you ask if the offended can forgive the offender if the offender doesn't know he has committed an offense toward the offended.

    I would have to say that the answer to this is YES. Yes, because Jesus requested of God while he was hanging on the cross (tree, whatever), to "forgive them Father, for they know not what they do". They didn't know what they had done, yet Jesus asked God to forgive them.

    Then you asked; "Does forgiveness requires us to meet and commune with the trespassER?" My answer to this would be "No" from what I know in my limited knowledge and scope of God's Word. However, and I cannot remember the verse, but I believe that somewhere is a section of scripture that says something to the effect of; "if a brother be overtaken in a fault, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness".

    So, it appears that if it is possible to confront or "restore" a brother by speaking to him about his fault, then it should in fact be done. Personally, I would rather er on the side of compassion and forgiveness than "refusing to forgive someone". I had refused to forgive a particular LC for a long time, and I allowed bitterness in my life because of it. And finally, my wife challenged me to forgive that guy so that I could stop being bitter about an incident that I couldn't change. And so, even though he didn't know it, I forgave him, and my bitterness melted away. Worked for me. That guy is here at this site now. Hmm. Maybe if he and I ever have a chance to chat, it might come up, and we'll see what happens...

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  • Can we then say that forgiveness is a free gift from the trespassEE to the trespassER and as such does not require a "return" from those that trespass against you. Here's another question, can you forgive a person that has wrong you without they knowing you have done so? Or must it be made known? Does forgiveness requires us to meet and commune with the the trespassER?
  • If Jesus could forgive 'em on the cross, then so can anybody. And, Jesus said we should. God also said we should. In the lord's prayer, we are told to do so. The good and the positive of doing so? We could go on forever. So, if doing so is good enough for Jesus Christ, it is good enough for me. Does my forgiving someone require he who trespassed against me to ask my forgiveness? I don't think so. Is it nice if someone who trespassed against me asks forgiveness? Well certainly it is very nice and may help me come to the conclusion of forgiving said trespasser. But I do not believe that it is a requirement. Forgiving others is not only for the trespassER, but also very much a help and blessing to the trespassEE.
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